It is said that Chinese parents are the world’s most responsible parents, since the kids are born, they start to plan everything for the children, they choose the school, the kids’ hobby even the kids’ partners. Chinese parents want to raise their kids to be the excellent ones, they put so much hope on the kids. While it is also said the Chinese kids are the world’s most unhappy kids, because they live as what the parents tell them, they don’t have their own thinking. Both sides reflect Chinese family situation that the parents give the children too much pressure, the children feel unhappy about their parents’ expectation. Indeed, I feel the way, my parents always want me to be the No.1, they tell me I should get the highest score, I feel tired, I tell them how I feel, then they begin to realize their expectation has become a burden for me. parents should give space to their kids.

據(jù)說中國的父母是世界上最負(fù)責(zé)任的父母，打從孩子出生，他們就為孩子計(jì)劃了一切，他們選擇學(xué)校，孩子的業(yè)余愛好，甚至于孩子的玩伴。中國的父母想要把孩子培養(yǎng)成優(yōu)秀的人，他們對(duì)孩子給予了很多的希望。然而據(jù)說中國的孩子是世界上最不幸福的孩子，因?yàn)樗麄儼凑崭改傅尼t(yī)院活著，沒有自己的想法。兩邊的說法反應(yīng)了中國的家庭現(xiàn)狀，父母給予孩子太多壓力，孩子對(duì)于父母的期望感到不開心。確實(shí)，我有同感，我的父母總是想要我成為第一名，他們告訴我要拿最高分，我覺得很累，告訴了父母自己的想法，然而他們開始意識(shí)到自己的期望已經(jīng)成為了我的負(fù)擔(dān)。父母應(yīng)該給孩子一些空間。