別因為遇到了反對意見就想要逃避,而應運用你所有的資源就地和反對者戰(zhàn)斗。
Never run away from disagreeable circumstances.Fight them,with all your resources,right where you stand and without a moment's delay.
但這并不是說要對那些向你說“不”的人揮動拳頭,而是 說不要接受那些反對意見,而要盡一切努力改變反對者的心意,或者你應該反躬自省,看看你有什么做得不對的地方并加 以改進,有的時候逆境反而是一種檢驗的機會,它可提供使自 己更進步的方法。
This doesn't mean taking a swing at the fellow who tells you no.It does mean not accepting that refusal and bringing every faculty you have to bear on changing that person's mind. Or you may have to take a hard look at yourself,find the error you made, and resolve then and there to correct it. Sometimes adverse circumstances are testing devices,providing means by which you may be promoted from a given task to a greater on.
記住,你之所以成為一個獨立的人,并且處于一定的處境,乃因為你的心中堅持著某種觀念和想法。如果你遲遲不坑運用這些觀念思想的話,那就等于給自己帶來更多的限制 和挫折。
Remember,you are what you are and where you are because of the dominating thoughts in your mind. Procrastination in dealing with these thoughts only sentences you to further limitation and frustration.
步驟10
為完成任何有價值的事情,都須付出一定的代價,任何有價值的事情也值得去做。自力更生的代價就是當一個人在運 用信心時,必須時時保持戒慎的態(tài)度。
Recognize that anything worth having has a definite price tag.Anything worth having is worth working for. The price of self-reliance is eternal vigilance in applying your faith.
關(guān)上通往恐懼的門之后,你會很快地看到通往信心的大 門,增加和運用信心是一段費時而且需要奉獻的歷程,你在這 方面的努力是無止盡的,因為你所能運用的力量是無限的,因 努力而獲得的回報也是無盡的。
Close the door of fear behind you, and you will quickly see the door of faith open before you. Increasing and applying your faith are a process that takes time and dedication.You will never be finished with this task because the power you have at your disposal is infinite. So are rewards.